The BIG SIGNS You've Found THE ONE... (Find The Perfect Relationship) | Jay & Radhi Shetty

The video is about Jay and Radhi Shetty discussing how they met and giving advice on finding the perfect relationship, including being around people you like when they are with others and observing their behavior.

The video is about finding the perfect relationship and the signs that indicate you have found "the one." The hosts, Jay and Radhi Shetty, share their own story of how they met and fell in love. They emphasize the importance of being around someone in their natural environment to see if you truly like them for who they are. They also discuss the significance of observing how someone interacts with others and their behavior in different situations. Overall, the video provides insights and tips for finding a fulfilling and lasting relationship.

• Being around people you like in their natural environment is important in finding the perfect relationship.
• Observing behavior can help you see if someone is genuine, compatible, and handles difficult situations well.
• Trusting others, including family members, can lead to meeting potential partners and seeing things from a different perspective.
• Jay and Radhi met through family introductions and spent time observing each other's behavior and getting to know each other's families.
• Starting a relationship based on being yourself and not trying to impress the other person is important.
• Observing behavior in different situations can give you a good idea of who a person really is.
• Starting a relationship with nothing can show you who accepts you for who you are.
• Having qualities that align with what you want in a partner can make a relationship work.
• Having families that get along well with each other can make a relationship easier.

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Being Around People You Like

• Be around people you're thinking about being with in an environment where they're just being themselves.
• If you like them the way they are when they are with other people, then you're likely to love them when they're with you too.

How Jay and Radhi Met

• Jay met Radhi's mom before he became a monk and showed her how to do a particular service at the temple.
• That was the only time Jay was ever asked to show another person how to do this service.
• Radhi's mom introduced Jay to Radhi.
• Jay and Radhi became friends and organized charity events together.
• Jay observed Radhi's behavior around other people and liked her personality.

Observing Behavior

• Observing behavior is important in finding the perfect relationship.
• It's important to see how someone interacts with other people, not just with you.
• Observing behavior can help you see if someone is genuine or not.
• It's important to see how someone handles difficult situations.
• Observing behavior can help you see if someone is compatible with you.

The BIG SIGNS You've Found THE ONE... (Find The Perfect Relationship) | Jay & Radhi Shetty - YouTube

Trusting Others

• Jay and Radhi trusted their family members to introduce them to each other.
• Trusting others can lead to meeting new people and potential partners.
• Trusting others can help you see things from a different perspective.
• Trusting others can help you make better decisions.
• It's important to trust yourself and your instincts as well.

How Jay and Radhi Met

• Jay heard about Radhi through his sister
• Radhi thought Jay was a great person based on her observations
• They almost met before Jay became a monk
• They started going out towards the end of 2013
• They got along straight away and were certain about being with each other
• They spent a lot of time at each other's homes with their families

Observing Each Other

• They both understood each other by observing one another
• They got to know each other in their own environments really fast
• They spent a lot of time with each other's families
• Radhi's sister gave Jay an action plan for their relationship
• They could go into the relationship having more understanding of each other
• They fell in love with each other based on who they are and their personality

Starting a Relationship

• Dating environments put pressure on being in an interview
• Comparing dates to interviews
• Putting your best foot forward and trying to be right
• Being around people you like when they are with others
• Observing their behavior
• Being yourself and not trying to impress the other person

Being Around Each Other

• They spent a lot of time at each other's homes
• They got to know each other's families really well
• Radhi's mom was funny and would make comments about their relationship
• Radhi rarely wears makeup and Jay loves her for who she is
• Falling in love with someone based on their personality and energy
• Starting a relationship based on being yourself and not trying to impress the other person

Observing Behavior

• Be around people you're considering being with in an environment where they're just being themselves.
• Chances are if you like them the way they are when they are with other people, then you're likely to love them when they're with you too.
• Often we only see people we are considering being romantic with or dating in dates, dinners, and movie nights.
• Seeing people with the people they're closest to can give you a good image of who the person is.
• You can see them being probably at their worst and at their best.

Starting a Relationship with Nothing

• When they first got together, Jay had left being a monk seven months before and had no job or money.
• Radhi accepted him for who he was at that time.
• Radhi's parents were always really cool about it and never made Jay feel uncomfortable.
• Jay knew he wanted to be with Radhi and was driven to do whatever he wanted to do.
• Radhi felt supported from the beginning and knew Jay would always be there to take care of her.

Qualities in a Partner

• Radhi always wanted a husband like her dad who was someone she felt very protected and supported by.
• Jay had a lot of the qualities that Radhi always wanted in a partner.
• Jay had a really good way of saying things and winning people over by his words.
• From those interactions, Radhi's parents trusted Jay very easily as well.
• Jay and Radhi's families got along well with each other.

Conclusion

• Observing behavior in different situations can give you a good idea of who a person really is.
• Starting a relationship with nothing can show you who accepts you for who you are.
• Having qualities that align with what you want in a partner can make a relationship work.
• Having families that get along well with each other can make a relationship easier.

Self-awareness and setting expectations

• Self-awareness is important at the start of a relationship.
• Having self-awareness helps in knowing what type of partner is needed.
• Communicating expectations is important.
• Being clear about oneself and respecting the other person's priorities is important.
• Respecting the other person's passion is important.

Being a team

• Being a team is important in a relationship.
• It is important to think of each other as a team.
• Being a team helps in dealing with family demands.
• Having each other's back is important.
• Being a team builds a strong bond early on.

Understanding each other's priorities

• Understanding each other's priorities is important.
• Respecting the other person's priorities is important.
• Discussing and understanding each other's point of view is important.
• It is important to not get swayed by other people's views.
• Understanding each other's priorities helps in supporting each other.

Valuing each other's passions

• Valuing each other's passions is important.
• Seeing something as a priority for oneself is important.
• Having someone who understands and trusts is important.
• Allowing space for each other's passions strengthens the relationship.
• Valuing each other's passions builds a strong bond early on.

Supporting Each Other

• Being supportive and comforting to each other
• Understanding the reason behind supporting each other
• Choosing quality time over quantity time
• Investing full attention in the moment
• Using skills and talents to make an effort for each other's family and friends

Quality Time

• Choosing quality time over quantity time
• Investing full attention in the moment
• Interacting with each other rather than just being present
• People appreciate full attention and deep connection
• Using skills and talents to make an effort for each other's family and friends

Love Languages

• Five love languages: quality time, touch, words of affirmation, acts of service, and gifts
• Everyone has multiple love languages with a priority hierarchy
• It's important to recognize and understand your own and your partner's love languages
• It's easy to give what you want to receive, but it's important to give what your partner wants to receive
• It takes time and trial and error to figure out each other's love languages

Using Skills and Talents

• Making an effort for each other's family and friends using skills and talents
• People appreciate the effort more than the amount of time spent
• Using skills and talents to show love and appreciation
• It's important to recognize and appreciate each other's skills and talents
• Investing full attention in the moment and making a deep connection

Assumptions and Misconceptions

• People often make assumptions about others based on their appearance or media portrayal.
• These assumptions can lead to misconceptions about what someone likes or wants.
• When planning a date or buying a gift, it's important to consider the person's actual preferences rather than assuming based on stereotypes.
• It may take time and effort to truly understand someone's likes and dislikes.
• Communication and observation are key in avoiding assumptions and misconceptions.

Food and Quality Time

• Radhi enjoys food and prefers to go to food places for dates.
• Jay learned that Radhi likes food and started buying her cards with food puns and taking her to food places.
• They went on a cooking date at a Jamie Oliver event.
• Quality time is important to both of them.
• They enjoy spending time together doing activities like cooking and going on walks.

Gift Giving

• Jay is a gift person, but Radhi is not as much.
• Radhi prefers words of affirmation and quality time.
• Jay once bought Radhi an ASUS tablet as a gift, but she was disappointed because she wanted an iPad.
• Radhi organized an epic surprise birthday party for Jay, showing her love for surprises.
• It's important to understand someone's preferences and priorities when giving gifts.

Reflecting on Childhood Experiences

• Radhi's love for surprises comes from her mom surprising her on her birthday when she was a kid.
• Reflecting on childhood experiences can help understand one's preferences and priorities.
• Surprises become harder to do as people grow up, but they can still be meaningful.
• Radhi organized an epic surprise birthday party for Jay two months after his actual birthday.
• They both appreciate surprises and quality time spent together.

Planning a Special Event

• Radhi planned a special event for Jay with all of his friends from LA.
• She made sure that every single person that Jay cares about was there.
• Radhi cooked for everyone at the event.
• The event had an illusionist and an incredible DJ playing violin to some of Jay's favorite songs.
• Jay was blown away and speechless by the event.
• It was the hardest thing Radhi had ever done, but she did it to show Jay that she understood his love language and appreciated him.

Learning About Each Other

• It takes time to learn about each other in a relationship.
• Waking up enthusiastic and energetic every day to fall in love with that person again is important.
• It's important to ask yourself if you're looking for more reasons to get that person to change for you or if you're looking for more reasons to fall more in love and learn about each other.
• If you're looking for the other person to change for you, the relationship may not last long.
• It's important to wake up every day with the intention of being better for the other person.
• It's about what you feel you're bringing to the other person rather than what you feel you can get from the other person.

Playing to Your Strengths

• Radhi and Jay have different skills and strengths.
• They play to their strengths instead of trying to be equal in all areas.
• Radhi loves being in the kitchen, while Jay is good at doing all the math stuff to do with bills.
• They value what the other person brings as equal.
• It's important to understand that you have skills in different areas and can contribute to the relationship with those skills.
• Valuing what the other person brings is key.

Appreciating Each Other

• It's important to appreciate each other in a relationship.
• Jay and Radhi have been through a lot together.
• They appreciate each other's differences and strengths.
• They wake up every day with the intention of being better for each other.
• They understand that it takes time to learn about each other.
• Appreciating each other is key to a successful relationship.

Playing to Your Strengths

• It's important to recognize and play to each other's strengths in a relationship.
• Trying to equalize skills is not a good idea.
• One person's skill should not be seen as more important than the other's.
• Using a sports team analogy, each player is equally important.
• Using a food analogy, each ingredient is equally important.

Valuing Each Other's Contributions

• It's important to value each other's contributions in a relationship.
• Even if one person is working outside the home and the other is working inside the home, both contributions are equally important.
• Showing appreciation for each other's efforts, such as offering to help with household tasks, is a way to demonstrate value.
• Putting effort and love into activities, such as cooking, makes them more meaningful.
• Food can be seen as an offering of love.

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