The Vicious Ways Women Compete - Dr Tracy Vaillancourt

The video is about the ways women compete with each other and how they are not always kind to all women. Dr. Tracy Vaillancourt argues that women are intolerant of certain types of women, particularly those who are sexually provocative or available. She cites a study she conducted that showed this phenomenon is universal and has been replicated around the world. The study found that women are particularly intolerant of women who are sexually provocative or available, and this is a specific word to use here, not necessarily just attractive. The study also found that if a woman is incredibly attractive, it can publicly unnerve some women because that person would be revered by men and that would debase their own standing in terms of competition.

This video by Chris Williamson was published on Nov 25, 2023.
Video length: 01:26:44.

The video is about the ways women compete with each other and how they often have different qualities that they admire in a person.

The speaker, Dr. Tracy Vaillancourt, argues that women are not universally kind to all women and that there is a perception of resource security that affects women more than men. She also discusses the idea that women are intolerant of certain types of women, particularly those who are sexually provocative or available.

The speaker conducted a study that showed this phenomenon and it has been replicated around the world.

* Dr. Tracy Vaillancourt argues that women are intolerant of certain types of women, particularly those who are sexually provocative or available. * The study she conducted found that women are particularly intolerant of women who are sexually provocative or available. * If a woman is incredibly attractive, it can publicly unnerve some women because that person would be revered by men and that would debase their own standing in terms of competition. * The study also found that if a woman is incredibly attractive, it can publicly unnerve some women because that person would be revered by men and that would debase their own standing in terms of competition. * The study also found that if a woman is incredibly attractive, it can publicly unnerve some women because that person would be revered by men and that would debase their own standing in terms of competition. * Dr. Tracy Vaillancourt and her post-doctoral student Anel Sharma designed a study to investigate the use of indirect aggression among women. * The study involved women coming into the lab and being randomized into one of four conditions with their friend and a stranger, either a sexy or conservatively dressed confederate. * In the sexy condition, all women treated the confederate poorly, with two exceptions. * When the confederate was dressed conservatively, the women did not even pay attention to her. * The study suggests that women are intolerant of sexy peers, particularly those who are sexually provocative or available. * This intolerance is not limited to men, but is also policed by women. * The study also shows that more shaming comes from women than from men, although this may depend on the cultural context. * The study highlights the role of cultural and social factors in shaping female psychology and behavior. * The study raises questions about the role of women in enforcing social norms and the impact of these norms on individual behavior. * The study suggests that shaming is a form of intersexual competition, with women using indirect aggression to enforce their own standing in the competition. * The study also shows that shaming is a form of price enforcement, with women lowering the market value of whatever they are competing for by shaming others. * The study highlights the role of game theory in shaping social behavior and the impact of social norms on individual behavior. * The study raises questions about the role of women in enforcing social norms and the impact of these norms on individual behavior. * The study suggests that the enforcement mechanism of intersexual competition is a cartel, with women working together to enforce their own standing in the competition. * Women are intolerant of certain types of women, particularly those who are sexually provocative or available. * Study found that women are particularly intolerant of women who are sexually provocative or available. * If a woman is incredibly attractive, it can publicly unnerve some women because that person would be revered by men and that would debase their own standing in terms of competition. * The study found that women who make sex too readily available compromise the power holding position of the group. * The study also found that if a woman is incredibly attractive, it can publicly unnerve some women because that person would be revered by men and that would debase their own standing in terms of competition. * Sex is coveted by men. * Women limit access to sex as a way of maintaining advantage in the negotiation of this resource. * Women who make sex too readily available compromise the power holding position of the group. * Many women are particularly intolerant of women who are or seem to be promiscuous. * It is interesting that even animals who are not sexually active have an idea that someone might be too promiscuous and might take some future husband away from them. * There is a lot of socialization around the idea of sex. * School dress codes exist and have long existed, and just now in 2023 are we getting rid of them. * Little girls know about these dress codes and little boys know about them. * These dress codes exist and they have long existed, and just now in 2023 are we getting rid of them. * It is hard to separate the evolutionary significance of this from the massive socialization pressure that they are under. * Society is quite intolerant of women who are sexually provocative or available. * It is easy for us to blame men and not look at ourselves. * Some men do get upset by somebody dressing sexy, and in some cultural groups, they really do. * It is important to acknowledge that women oppress women as well as men oppress women. * Indirect competition between the sexes is a ratio that needs to be considered.

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Section 1: The Vicious Ways Women Compete

• Dr. Tracy Vaillancourt argues that women are intolerant of certain types of women, particularly those who are sexually provocative or available.
• The study she conducted found that women are particularly intolerant of women who are sexually provocative or available.
• If a woman is incredibly attractive, it can publicly unnerve some women because that person would be revered by men and that would debase their own standing in terms of competition.
• The study also found that if a woman is incredibly attractive, it can publicly unnerve some women because that person would be revered by men and that would debase their own standing in terms of competition.
• The study also found that if a woman is incredibly attractive, it can publicly unnerve some women because that person would be revered by men and that would debase their own standing in terms of competition.

Section 2: The Study

• Dr. Tracy Vaillancourt conducted a study that found that women are intolerant of certain types of women, particularly those who are sexually provocative or available.
• The study found that women are particularly intolerant of women who are sexually provocative or available.
• The study also found that if a woman is incredibly attractive, it can publicly unnerve some women because that person would be revered by men and that would debase their own standing in terms of competition.
• The study also found that if a woman is incredibly attractive, it can publicly unnerve some women because that person would be revered by men and that would debase their own standing in terms of competition.
• The study also found that if a woman is incredibly attractive, it can publicly unnerve some women because that person would be revered by men and that would debase their own standing in terms of competition.

Section 3: The Perception of Resource Security

• Dr. Tracy Vaillancourt argues that there's a perception of resource security that affects women more than men.
• In some places in the world, there's absolutely resource security.
• When things don't seem fair, it's hard to be generous.
• The idea that women hold less power because of resource security.
• The idea that women hold less power because of resource security.

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Section 4: The Study Results

• Dr. Tracy Vaillancourt's study showed that women are intolerant of certain types of women, particularly those who are sexually provocative or available.
• The study found that women are particularly intolerant of women who are sexually provocative or available.
• The study also found that if a woman is incredibly attractive, it can publicly unnerve some women because that person would be revered by men and that would debase their own standing in terms of competition.
• The study also found that if a woman is incredibly attractive, it can publicly unnerve some women because that person would be revered by men and that would debase their own standing in terms of competition.
• The study also found that if a woman is incredibly attractive, it can publicly unnerve some women because that person would be revered by men and that would debase their own standing in terms of competition.

The Study

• Dr. Tracy Vaillancourt and her post-doctoral student Anel Sharma designed a study to investigate the use of indirect aggression among women.
• The study involved women coming into the lab and being randomized into one of four conditions with their friend and a stranger, either a sexy or conservatively dressed confederate.
• The person was the same in both conditions, and the only difference was the sexy outfit of the confederate.
• In the sexy condition, all women treated the confederate poorly, with two exceptions.
• When the confederate was dressed conservatively, the women did not even pay attention to her.

Implications

• The study suggests that women are intolerant of sexy peers, particularly those who are sexually provocative or available.
• This intolerance is not limited to men, but is also policed by women.
• The study also shows that more shaming comes from women than from men, although this may depend on the cultural context.
• The study highlights the role of cultural and social factors in shaping female psychology and behavior.
• The study also raises questions about the role of women in enforcing social norms and the impact of these norms on individual behavior.

The Game Theory of Shaming

• The study suggests that shaming is a form of intersexual competition, with women using indirect aggression to enforce their own standing in the competition.
• The study also shows that shaming is a form of price enforcement, with women lowering the market value of whatever they are competing for by shaming others.
• The study highlights the role of game theory in shaping social behavior and the impact of social norms on individual behavior.
• The study also raises questions about the role of women in enforcing social norms and the impact of these norms on individual behavior.
• The study suggests that the enforcement mechanism of intersexual competition is a cartel, with women working together to enforce their own standing in the competition.

The Vicious Ways Women Compete

• Women are intolerant of certain types of women, particularly those who are sexually provocative or available.
• Study found that women are particularly intolerant of women who are sexually provocative or available.
• If a woman is incredibly attractive, it can publicly unnerve some women because that person would be revered by men and that would debase their own standing in terms of competition.
• The study found that women who make sex too readily available compromise the power holding position of the group.
• The study also found that if a woman is incredibly attractive, it can publicly unnerve some women because that person would be revered by men and that would debase their own standing in terms of competition.

Sexual Competition

• Sex is coveted by men.
• Women limit access to sex as a way of maintaining advantage in the negotiation of this resource.
• Women who make sex too readily available compromise the power holding position of the group.
• Many women are particularly intolerant of women who are or seem to be promiscuous.
• It is interesting that even animals who are not sexually active have an idea that someone might be too promiscuous and might take some future husband away from them.

Socialization Around Sex

• There is a lot of socialization around the idea of sex.
• School dress codes exist and have long existed, and just now in 2023 are we getting rid of them.
• Little girls know about these dress codes and little boys know about them.
• These dress codes exist and they have long existed, and just now in 2023 are we getting rid of them.
• It is hard to separate the evolutionary significance of this from the massive socialization pressure that they are under.

Society's Intolerance

• Society is quite intolerant of women who are sexually provocative or available.
• It is easy for us to blame men and not look at ourselves.
• Some men do get upset by somebody dressing sexy, and in some cultural groups, they really do.
• It is important to acknowledge that women oppress women as well as men oppress women.
• Indirect competition between the sexes is a ratio that needs to be considered.

The Vicious Ways Women Compete

• Women are intolerant of certain types of women, particularly those who are sexually provocative or available.
• This phenomenon is universal and has been replicated around the world.
• If a woman is incredibly attractive, it can publicly unnerve some women because that person would be revered by men and that would debase their own standing in terms of competition.
• Women are more attuned to indirect aggression and respond to it more, which has an evolutionary significance because belonging was far more important to women than to men.
• Indirect aggression is more effective than direct aggression for women, as it does not have the same hit on men.

Social Comparisons

• Social comparisons are common among adolescent girls and boys.
• Comparing oneself to others can elicit jealousy.
• Jealousy can be managed by turning it inward or outward.
• Turning jealousy inward can lead to depression and anxiety.
• Turning jealousy outward can lead to tearing down rivals.

Handshakes After Games

• Handshakes after games are common in North America.
• Not getting a handshake can be hurtful for women.
• Women around the world struggle to let go of grudges.
• Women may hold grudges for life.

Best Player on the Team

• The best player on a girl's team is not necessarily the most popular player.
• In boys' teams and men's teams, the best player is usually the most popular.
• Being the best player can make a woman bullied on her team.
• Tripping the prom queen is a common theory in female hierarchies.

Status and Competence in Female Hierarchies

• Status and competence are split apart in female hierarchies.
• Female hierarchies are not the same as male hierarchies.
• Women may feel competition even when they are not passing the ball.
• Women may take themselves off the bench to let their team win.

Preference for Egalitarianism

• Women and girls may prefer egalitarianism over winning.
• Male and female students may have different reactions to exam results.

The Vicious Ways Women Compete

• Women tend to downplay their qualifications and accolades if they think their responses will be seen by others as opposed to if they are kept private.
• Women make themselves smaller to avoid attracting negative attention from other women.
• Women use self-deprecating humor to put themselves down and not think well of themselves.
• Jealousy is a mediator between attractiveness comparison and indirect aggression.
• Women are good at attacking other women whom they perceive to have more.

The Vicious Ways Women Compete

• The internet has led to the chopping off of many female heads.
• Being a woman and navigating the female status hierarchy is tough.
• Indirect aggression is used to make their point.
• Certain types of women, particularly those who are sexually provocative or available, are intolerated.
• If a woman is incredibly attractive, it can publicly unnerve some women.

Changing Behavior

• Acknowledging the issue is the first step in changing behavior.
• The bullying and harm caused by certain types of women is real.
• It is linked to eating disorders, depression, anxiety, and suicidality.
• Front-loading compassion but backloading the issues that come from not understanding the problem is not effective.
• Women in Academia can handle opinions being expressed directly and in contradiction to their own viewpoints.

Tolerance and Honesty

• Being a little less sensitive and more tolerant would be beneficial.
• Honesty is important in wielding power and holding power.
• A hypothetical hairdressing clients study found that women sabotage clients through disingenuous beauty advice.
• Women cut off more hair of women they perceive to be about as attractive as themselves.
• The dominance incited by women wearing makeup resulted in reduced sabotage.

Experience and Reaction

• Experience tells you what's going on.
• Bill Burr has an amazing bit about the body positivity movement.
• The body positivity movement encourages women to push themselves further out of the appropriate mate value dating pool.
• Applauding women for being the size that they are makes a woman less attractive to men.

The Vicious Ways Women Compete

• Dr. Tracy Vaillancourt argues that women are intolerant of certain types of women, particularly those who are sexually provocative or available.
• A study conducted by Dr. Vaillancourt found that women are particularly intolerant of women who are sexually provocative or available.
• If a woman is incredibly attractive, it can publicly unnerve some women because that person would be revered by men and that would debase their own standing in terms of competition.
• The underlying turbulence that happens below the surface is so effective that it doesn't matter whether a woman is or isn't the net result is what works.
• Dr. Vaillancourt's study was replicated around the world and found the same results.

Bullying and Mental Health

• Bullying and ostracism can have a significant effect on young girls' mental health, with one in four children reporting clinically elevated rates of depression.
• Rates for emergency department visits for attempted suicide have increased by 22% in the past few years.
• Eating disorders increased by 60% during the pandemic.
• There has been a general decline in young people's mental health for the past 15 years or so.
• Dr. Vaillancourt has been studying mental health and violence for years, focusing on what happens when people are exposed to violence and the mental health issues that ensue.

Mental Health Crisis

• The mental health crisis is particularly pronounced for adolescent girls and young women.
• During the pandemic, social isolation and exposure to violence have contributed to poor mental health.
• Intimate partner violence is more likely to affect women than men.
• Social media has not been good for adolescent girls and women, leading to social comparisons, jealousy, and externalized or internalized behavior.
• Dr. Vaillancourt has seen this over and over again in her clinical work and research.

Social Media and Mental Health

• Social media has been identified as a contributing factor to the mental health crisis.
• Girls and women make a lot of comparisons on social media, which leads to jealousy and externalized or internalized behavior.
• Men do not use social media in the same way as women.
• Dr. Vaillancourt has seen this over and over again in her clinical work and research.
• It is important to be aware of the impact of social media on mental health, particularly for adolescent girls and women.

The Vicious Ways Women Compete

• Dr. Tracy Vaillancourt argues that women are intolerant of certain types of women, particularly those who are sexually provocative or available.
• A study conducted by Dr. Vaillancourt found that women are particularly intolerant of women who are sexually provocative or available.
• If a woman is incredibly attractive, it can publicly unnerve some women because that person would be revered by men and that would debase their own standing in terms of competition.
• The study also found that if a woman is incredibly attractive, it can publicly unnerve some women because that person would be revered by men and that would debase their own standing in terms of competition.
• Dr. Vaillancourt argues that women are intolerant of certain types of women, particularly those who are sexually provocative or available.

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