LOVE EXPERT ON: When A Man TRULY LOVES You, He Will DO THIS! | Stephan Speaks & Jay Shetty

Last updated: Jun 1, 2023

The video discusses the signs of true love and emphasizes the importance of evaluating one's own feelings before choosing a partner.

The video features a conversation between Stephan Speaks and Jay Shetty about how to know if someone truly loves you. They discuss the importance of being honest with oneself about why they are holding onto a relationship and the need to evaluate if they truly love their partner. They also talk about the definition of love, which includes kindness, compassion, patience, and understanding. The conversation emphasizes the importance of taking time to nurture a relationship and learning each other's love languages.

  • Be honest with yourself about why you're still holding on to a relationship.
  • Infatuation and unhealthy attachments can make you feel like you're in love.
  • True love flows both ways and is not one-sided.
  • Choosing a partner based on the idea of being loved is not wise.
  • Love is about kindness, compassion, patience, understanding, and a willingness to be selfless.
  • Many people fall in love too fast.
  • Connection is a rare occurrence that happens on a deeper level.
  • Communication is key in any relationship.
  • One should evaluate their own feelings before choosing a partner.

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Importance of Evaluating Your Feelings

  • Be honest with yourself about why you're still holding on to a relationship.
  • Infatuation and unhealthy attachments can make you feel like you're in love.
  • True love flows both ways and is not one-sided.
  • Choosing a partner based on the idea of being loved is not wise.
  • Without evaluating if you truly love them, nothing else matters.
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Defining Love

  • Love is about kindness, compassion, patience, understanding, and a willingness to be selfless.
  • God is love.
  • Other ingredients are necessary before moving forward in a romantic relationship.
  • Love is about giving and fulfilling the needs of your partner.
  • Be clear with yourself about what's driving your intention.
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Falling in Love Too Fast

  • Many people fall in love too fast.
  • Love requires patience, understanding, and time to nurture.
  • Learning each other's Love Languages is important.
  • Dealing with emotions and vulnerability takes time to manage.
  • People mishandle emotions when they're not used to dealing with them.
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Signs of True Love

  • True love is not just about words, but actions.
  • True love is about being there for your partner through thick and thin.
  • True love is about accepting your partner for who they are.
  • True love is about being willing to compromise and work through problems together.
  • True love is about being committed to each other and the relationship.
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Understanding Connection, Chemistry, and Compatibility

  • Connection is a rare occurrence that happens on a deeper level.
  • Chemistry is a spark that can happen with many people.
  • Compatibility is what makes a relationship last.
  • People often confuse chemistry with connection.
  • Compatibility is about coexisting in harmony.
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The Importance of Self-Evaluation

  • It's important to be honest with yourself about why you're holding on to a relationship.
  • Don't stay with someone just because you don't want to start over with someone else.
  • If the relationship isn't born out of a true connection and genuine desire, it's a waste of time.
  • Setting yourself up for disaster by staying in a relationship that isn't right for you.
  • Self-evaluation is the first step in finding a healthy and fulfilling relationship.
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The Significance of Taking Things Slow

  • People often rush into relationships without taking the time to evaluate their feelings.
  • It's important to take things slow to ensure that you're making the right decision.
  • Don't rush into a relationship just because you're afraid of being alone.
  • Slow down and take the time to get to know the person before committing.
  • By taking things slow, you can build a strong foundation for a lasting relationship.
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The Importance of Communication

  • Communication is key in any relationship.
  • It's important to discuss important issues and address them before committing.
  • Don't overlook important issues just because you're afraid of conflict.
  • Be open and honest with your partner about your feelings and expectations.
  • Communication can help build a strong foundation for a healthy and fulfilling relationship.
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Importance of Honesty and Communication

  • Being honest with oneself helps in evaluating the relationship.
  • Some signs that indicate a waste of time in a relationship are not talking about things, not addressing or correcting things that have been talked about, and not being on the same page about what one wants in life.
  • Women's intuition is powerful, and they know early on if the relationship is not right.
  • Rationalizing reasons to give a man a chance is a waste of time.
  • Ignoring one's intuition can lead to years of being married to someone one is not happy with.
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Difference between Connection, Chemistry, and Compatibility

  • Chemistry is the feeling of butterflies in the stomach, while connection is a deeper understanding of each other.
  • Being oneself with the other person is a sign of a real connection.
  • When caught up in chemistry, one should ask oneself what they really like about the other person.
  • Connection is when one's paths and purposes align.
  • Asking questions is important to discover important truths that define whether the relationship will last.
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Signs of True Love

  • True love is when the other person is willing to do anything for one's happiness.
  • True love is when the other person is willing to make sacrifices for the relationship.
  • True love is when the other person is willing to grow and change for the betterment of the relationship.
  • True love is when the other person is willing to communicate and work through problems together.
  • True love is when the other person is willing to prioritize the relationship over other things.
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Importance of Evaluating One's Own Feelings

  • One should evaluate their own feelings before choosing a partner.
  • One should ask oneself if the other person makes them happy and if they can see a future with them.
  • One should not settle for less than what they deserve.
  • One should not be afraid to walk away from a relationship that is not right for them.
  • One should trust their intuition and not rationalize reasons to give a person a chance.
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Presenting Different Sides of Yourself

  • Presenting a side of yourself that is not sustainable is unhealthy.
  • Trying to impress someone by spending all your money is a recipe for disaster.
  • People who hold back on communication to avoid coming off a certain way are setting themselves up for failure.
  • Presenting a false standard in a relationship is setting unrealistic expectations.
  • It's important to present the real you from the beginning.
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Unrealistic Standards in Relationships

  • At the beginning of relationships, people often display unrealistic standards.
  • Setting unrealistic expectations is hard to come back from.
  • It's important to know who you are so you can present the real you from the beginning.
  • People don't change, they just become conscious of who they are.
  • Society doesn't encourage taking the time to get to know yourself.
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Importance of Evaluating Your Own Feelings

  • It's important to evaluate your own feelings before choosing a partner.
  • People often choose partners based on external factors rather than internal compatibility.
  • Knowing yourself helps you choose a partner who is compatible with you.
  • It's important to be honest with yourself about what you want and need in a relationship.
  • Choosing a partner based on external factors can lead to an unsustainable relationship.
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Signs of True Love

  • True love is selfless and puts the other person's needs first.
  • True love is patient and understanding.
  • True love is supportive and encourages personal growth.
  • True love is honest and transparent.
  • True love is committed and willing to work through challenges.
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Encouraging Self-Exploration

  • Parents should encourage their children to explore their feelings about who they are.
  • Many people have stifled their children's growth in certain areas with limited ideas.
  • People's desires as adults can be traced back to their childhood.
  • Let children walk in what they want to do and see for themselves if that's really where they belong.
  • Limiting children's growth can lead to them feeling unfulfilled as adults.
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Finding Yourself Spiritually

  • Getting in tune spiritually is important.
  • Going into a wilderness period can help you find yourself.
  • The world is filled with distractions that prevent us from seeing ourselves for who we really are.
  • Shutting off distractions and spending time alone can help you learn a lot about yourself.
  • Many people are not aware of themselves and are not willing to accept who they are.
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Relationships and Compatibility

  • Most relationships that involve connection and true love are typically hard.
  • People have been hurt by something in their life and are holding on to past traumas.
  • People mishandle relationships because they are scared and don't know how to manage them.
  • People get bad advice on how to handle the person they truly love.
  • People who are supposed to be together sometimes have the hardest time getting together.
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Handling Difficulties in Relationships

  • Difficulties in relationships arise from past traumas and fear.
  • People feel like they're losing themselves, but their true self is coming out.
  • People mishandle relationships with bad guidance and fear.
  • People should understand that relationships don't have to be hard.
  • People should learn how to handle the person they truly love.
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The Importance of Consciousness in Relationships

  • Being conscious and mindful of how we treat our partners is important.
  • It's easier to do those things with someone you have a connection with and you're truly in love with.
  • It's harder when you're in the wrong relationship.
  • There will be bumps in the road, but once you're able to come together, it can get better.
  • People need to evaluate their own feelings before choosing a partner.
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The Lack of Education on Relationships

  • People have been given the wrong education on how to deal with another person in their life.
  • Individuals are giving advice from a bit or hurt place.
  • Relationships are arguably more important than career or business.
  • People need to learn how to talk to and listen to others.
  • There is too much bad advice being given on the internet.
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Examples of Bad Advice

  • One example of bad advice is telling men not to fall in love.
  • The problem isn't falling deeply for a woman, it's not knowing how to handle it once you get there.
  • A lack of understanding and awareness derails the situation.
  • Teach men how to walk in love and maintain their energy while pouring into their partner.
  • It's about balance between masculine and feminine energy.
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The Importance of Education on Relationships

  • People need to prioritize education on relationships.
  • Relationships are important for coexisting and connecting with others.
  • Establishing business relationships is important for career and business success.
  • People need to learn how to establish and maintain relationships.
  • Education on relationships can help people avoid being in the wrong relationship.
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The Importance of Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energy

  • As a man, it's important to balance your masculine and feminine energy.
  • You can't just stay in one energy all the time.
  • Women become less attracted when you don't know how to exude and walk in your masculine energy.
  • Women desire a mixture of both masculine and feminine energy.
  • It's healthy to have a balance of both energies in a partner.
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Skills for Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energy

  • It's hard to balance both energies because we live in a binary world.
  • We need to learn how to hold two opposing ideas at the same time.
  • Transparency and communication are important in a relationship to balance energies.
  • It's important to be honest and open about when you need more of one energy or the other.
  • Don't overthink it, just be yourself and learn when one energy is doing too much.
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