How To Be More Attractive To The Opposite Sex | Rob Henderson & Mikhaila Peterson #143

The video is about dating profiles and how to improve them to attract the opposite sex. The speaker, Rob Henderson, discusses the research he has done on this topic and shares his thoughts on what men and women do wrong with their dating profiles. He also talks about the study that found that men tend to swipe right on more than 60% of the women they encounter, while women only swipe right on 4.5%. The speaker also discusses his concept of "luxury beliefs" and how it relates to sexual attraction and dating apps. He also talks about the rise of self-censorship and writing in the current times. The speaker promotes NordVPN as a way to protect oneself from phishing sites and malware.

This video by Mikhaila Peterson was published on Mar 26, 2022.
Video length: 01:16:32.

The video is about dating profiles and how to improve them to attract the opposite sex.

The speaker, Mikhaila Peterson, interviews Rob Henderson, a doctoral candidate at Cambridge University, about his research on the topic. Henderson discusses his concept of "luxury beliefs," which refers to the beliefs held by wealthy individuals, and how they relate to sexual attraction and dating apps. He also talks about the rise of self-censorship and writing in today's society.

The video covers a range of topics related to dating and relationships, including the dark triad of personality traits and how they can be used to manipulate others.

How To Be More Attractive To The Opposite Sex | Rob Henderson & Mikhaila Peterson #143 - YouTube

Section 1: Research on Dating Profiles

• The speaker, Rob Henderson, has done research on dating profiles and what men and women do wrong with them.
• He discusses the study that found that men tend to swipe right on more than 60% of the women they encounter, while women only swipe right on 4.5%.
• He talks about the concept of "luxury beliefs" and how it relates to sexual attraction and dating apps.
• He discusses the rise of self-censorship and writing in the current times.
• He promotes NordVPN as a way to protect oneself from phishing sites and malware.

Section 2: Fish Pictures on Dating Profiles

• The speaker mentions that fish pictures tend to do well on dating profiles, contrary to popular belief.
• He talks about his conversation with a former product guy at Tinder who told him that fish pictures tend to do well.
• He discusses the study that found that men tend to swipe right on more than 60% of the women they encounter, while women only swipe right on 4.5%.
• He talks about the concept of "luxury beliefs" and how it relates to sexual attraction and dating apps.
• He discusses the rise of self-censorship and writing in the current times.

Section 3: Luxury Beliefs and Sexual Attraction

• The speaker talks about his concept of "luxury beliefs" and how it relates to sexual attraction and dating apps.
• He discusses the study that found that men tend to swipe right on more than 60% of the women they encounter, while women only swipe right on 4.5%.
• He talks about the concept of "luxury beliefs" and how it relates to sexual attraction and dating apps.
• He discusses the rise of self-censorship and writing in the current times.
• He promotes NordVPN as a way to protect oneself from phishing sites and malware.

How To Be More Attractive To The Opposite Sex | Rob Henderson & Mikhaila Peterson #143 - YouTube

Section 4: Self-Censorship and Writing in the Current Times

• The speaker discusses the rise of self-censorship and writing in the current times.
• He talks about his concept of "luxury beliefs" and how it relates to sexual attraction and dating apps.
• He discusses the study that found that men tend to swipe right on more than 60% of the women they encounter, while women only swipe right on 4.5%.
• He talks about the concept of "luxury beliefs" and how it relates to sexual attraction and dating apps.
• He promotes NordVPN as a way to protect oneself from phishing sites and malware.

The Dark Triad and Signaling Victimhood

• The dark triad is a set of personality traits that includes narcissism, psychopathy, and Machiavellianism.
• These traits tend to go together in the same person and are highly correlated with disagreeableness in the big five personality traits.
• Agreeableness is the most correlated trait with the dark triad, meaning that the higher a person is on agreeableness, the lower they tend to score on the dark triad.
• People who score high on the dark triad tend to signal victimhood more, which is not necessarily the same thing as actually being a victim.
• The researchers in the study found that people who tend to score high on the dark triad personality traits also tend to signal victimhood more.

Experimental Studies

• The researchers in the study also did experimental studies to test their findings.
• In one study, they rigged a game in which participants could win money but made it easy for them to cheat and figure out who cheated.
• They found that people who scored highly on the dark triad personality scale were more likely to cheat to win more money.
• In another study, they asked participants to imagine themselves in an employment scenario and found that people who scored highly on the dark triad personality scale were more likely to imagine themselves as victims.

The Rise of Self-Censorship

• The speaker discusses the rise of self-censorship in current times.
• He promotes NordVPN as a way to protect oneself from phishing sites and malware.

Conclusion

• The speaker concludes that the dark triad personality traits are highly correlated with disagreeableness in the big five personality traits.
• He emphasizes the importance of agreeableness in understanding the dark triad personality traits.

Section 1: Default Positions

• For women, the default is to not sleep with a man unless there is an extraordinary reason to do so.
• For men, the default is to sleep with a woman unless there is an extraordinary reason not to do so.
• These default positions are based on the risk of pregnancy for women and the desire for sex for men.
• Women tend to be more selective when it comes to choosing a partner due to the risk of pregnancy.
• Men are less picky when it comes to sex and relationships.

Section 2: Dating Profiles

• Rob Henderson has done research on dating profiles and what men and women do wrong with them.
• Fish pictures tend to do well on dating apps, contrary to popular belief.
• Having a dog in a dating app picture can increase the chances of being liked.
• Having a cat in a dating app picture can decrease the chances of being liked for straight men.
• Gay men have a slight preference for guys with cats.

Section 3: Education

• Research shows that having a master's degree can increase the number of likes on a dating app profile.
• Women with a master's degree get around 10 more likes than women with a bachelor's degree.
• Getting a master's degree can be a slight advantage for both men and women on dating apps.
• Opinions from women suggest that bathroom selfies are not good and that good pictures are important.
• Social proof research suggests that if a man is in a picture with women, he is rated as more attractive than when he is alone or surrounded by guys.

Section 1: Attractiveness and Dating Profiles

• The speaker discusses the concept of "luxury beliefs" and how it relates to sexual attraction and dating apps.
• He mentions the study that found that men tend to swipe right on more than 60% of the women they encounter, while women only swipe right on 4.5%.
• The speaker discusses the rise of self-censorship and writing in the current times.
• He promotes NordVPN as a way to protect oneself from phishing sites and malware.

Section 2: Attractiveness and Dating Apps

• The speaker discusses the research he has done on dating apps and how men and women do wrong with their dating profiles.
• He mentions that men who post pictures of themselves surrounded by women tend to get fewer likes than when they're alone or with guy friends.
• The speaker speculates that this might be because women may not be super interested in the picture or may think the guy is unserious or only wants short-term relationships.
• He mentions that this gives him the wrong vibe but this is just speculation.

Section 3: Attractiveness and Competition

• The speaker discusses the idea that competition may be a factor in attractiveness on dating apps.
• He mentions that if a woman is attractive, it may be competition for a man's attention.
• The speaker mentions that if a man is on a dating app already, he may not even want to get into a competition.
• He mentions that competition may be a reason for a man to show other women on his dating profile.

Section 4: Attractiveness and Instruments

• The speaker mentions that a musician carrying a guitar or other instrument may be more attractive to women on a dating app.
• He mentions that the type of instrument may matter, with a guitar being more attractive than a flute or a tuba.
• The speaker mentions that a piano or a saxophone may also be attractive.
• He mentions that drums may also be attractive, but the type of drum may matter.

Skydiving

• Skydiving is an activity that involves jumping from an aircraft and free-falling before deploying a parachute.
• It is often associated with courage and the absence of anxiety.
• Skydiving is considered more terrifying than bungee jumping, but it is also more popular.
• The concept of "luxury beliefs" relates to sexual attraction and dating apps.
• The rise of self-censorship and writing in the current times is affecting dating profiles.

Dating Profiles

• Dating profiles are a way for people to present themselves to potential partners.
• Rob Henderson has done research on dating profiles and their impact on attracting the opposite sex.
• Men tend to swipe right on more than 60% of the women they encounter, while women only swipe right on 4.5%.
• The study found that men's dating profiles are more successful than women's.
• The concept of "luxury beliefs" is related to sexual attraction and dating apps.

Section 1: The Rise of Political Peacocking

• The speaker, Rob Henderson, discusses the concept of political peacocking, which is the idea that men try to attract women by demonstrating their moral feathers.
• He draws an analogy between political peacocking and the behavior of peacocks, who puff up their feathers to attract peahens.
• The speaker notes that some women may be interested in men who are politically engaged, but that these men are often not very honest.
• He also points out that political peacocking can be a way for men to try to hide their true selves and present a certain image to attract women.
• The speaker suggests that political peacocking is not a sustainable way to attract women, as it is based on dishonesty and inflexibility.

Section 2: The Spread of Ideologies

• The speaker discusses the idea that certain ideologies, such as woke culture, can spread quickly through a population.
• He notes that research has shown that if a small group of people holds an idea very strongly and inflexibly, it can tend to proliferate throughout the rest of the population.
• The speaker suggests that this is because the inflexible group is able to exert dominance over the more flexible group.
• He also notes that the inflexibility of the small group can be seen as a way for them to try to hide their true selves and present a certain image to attract others.
• The speaker suggests that this is not a sustainable way to attract others, as it is based on inflexibility and dishonesty.

Section 3: The Rise of Luxury Beliefs

• The speaker introduces the concept of luxury beliefs, which are ideas that confer status on the upper class while inflicting costs on the lower classes.
• He notes that defunding the police is an example of a luxury belief, as it benefits the upper class at the expense of the lower classes.
• The speaker suggests that luxury beliefs are often held by a very small percentage of the population, and that they are disproportionately educated and affluent.
• He notes that most people do not agree with luxury beliefs, and that the vast majority of the population thinks them utterly insane.
• The speaker suggests that luxury beliefs are not a sustainable way to attract others, as they are based on inflexibility and dishonesty.

Section 4: The Impact of Ideologies on Society

• The speaker discusses the impact that ideologies can have on society, and notes that they can be used to try to hide the true selves of certain groups.
• He suggests that this is not a sustainable way to attract others, as it is based on inflexibility and dishonesty.
• The speaker notes that luxury beliefs are often held by a very small percentage of the population, and that they can have a significant impact on society.
• He suggests that it is important for people to be honest and flexible in their beliefs, in order to attract others and build a sustainable society.
• The speaker notes that it is important for people to be aware of the impact that their beliefs can have on others, and to strive for honesty and flexibility in all aspects of their lives.

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