The KEY HABITS All Successful People Have To ACHIEVE ANYTHING! | Patrick Bet David & Jay Shetty

Last updated: Jun 1, 2023

The video is about the key habits that successful people have to achieve anything, as discussed by Patrick Bet David and Jay Shetty, including embracing paradoxes and opposites, having a healthy debate, and focusing on the things that people have in common rather than their differences.

The video is a conversation between Patrick Bet David and Jay Shetty about the key habits that successful people have to achieve anything. They discuss the importance of visualization, embracing paradoxes and opposites, and having healthy debates. They also talk about the significance of the painting of dead mentors in Patrick's office and the characters that represent different aspects of his personality. They emphasize the need to focus on the things that people have in common rather than their differences to bring people together.

  • Embracing paradoxes and opposites allows for healthy debates and learning from different perspectives.
  • Having a healthy debate can be entertaining and educational, and can help people understand different perspectives and find common ground.
  • Focusing on commonalities can help bring people together, work towards common goals, and bridge differences.
  • Personal experience can teach the importance of embracing paradoxes and opposites, having a healthy debate, and focusing on commonalities.
  • Successful people embrace paradoxes and opposites, engage in healthy debates, focus on commonalities, and learn from opposing sides.
  • They are comfortable with ambiguity and uncertainty, able to hold opposing ideas, and see the value in different perspectives.
  • They listen to the other person's point of view, try to understand where they are coming from, and are respectful of their opinion.
  • They are able to connect with people from different backgrounds and cultures, find common ground, and work collaboratively towards a common goal.
  • They analyze situations from different perspectives, see the bigger picture, and learn from their mistakes.

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Embracing Paradoxes and Opposites

  • Patrick Bet David has a painting in his office that depicts eight characters that mean a lot to him, including Einstein, Kennedy, Lincoln, Tupac, MLK, the Shah of Iran, Senna, and three Marvel characters.
  • The characters are debating two books, Atlas Shrugged and Communist Manifesto, which represent opposite forms of economy.
  • Patrick Bet David believes that embracing paradoxes and opposites is important because it allows for healthy debates and the opportunity to learn from different perspectives.
  • He grew up in a family where his father was an imperialist and his mother was a communist, so he learned to appreciate different political views.
  • He believes that focusing on the things that people have in common rather than their differences can help bring people together.
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Having a Healthy Debate

  • Patrick Bet David enjoys watching debates on YouTube and believes that healthy debates can be entertaining and educational.
  • He believes that there is truth on both sides of political views and that there is a lot to be learned from different perspectives.
  • He enjoys asking people how they came to their conclusions about their views and believes that a healthy debate can help people learn from each other.
  • He believes that a healthy debate can help bring people together by focusing on the things that they have in common.
  • He believes that a healthy debate can help people understand different perspectives and find common ground.
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Focusing on Commonalities

  • Patrick Bet David believes that focusing on the things that people have in common can help bring people together.
  • He believes that people have more in common than they realize and that focusing on commonalities can help bridge differences.
  • He believes that people should focus on the things that they have in common rather than their differences.
  • He believes that people should try to understand different perspectives and find common ground.
  • He believes that focusing on commonalities can help people work together to achieve common goals.
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Personal Experience

  • Patrick Bet David grew up in Iran and watched Rocky IV with his family, which had a message about changing oneself and others.
  • He grew up in a family where his father was an imperialist and his mother was a communist, so he learned to appreciate different political views.
  • He believes that his personal experience has taught him the importance of embracing paradoxes and opposites, having a healthy debate, and focusing on commonalities.
  • He believes that his personal experience has helped him understand different perspectives and find common ground with others.
  • He believes that his personal experience has helped him become successful in his career and personal life.
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Embracing Paradoxes and Opposites

  • Successful people embrace paradoxes and opposites.
  • They understand that life is not black and white, but rather shades of gray.
  • They are comfortable with ambiguity and uncertainty.
  • They are able to hold two opposing ideas in their mind at the same time.
  • They are able to see the world from different perspectives.
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Having a Healthy Debate

  • Successful people engage in healthy debates with others.
  • They are able to have discussions and debates without getting personal or emotional.
  • They listen to the other person's point of view and try to understand where they are coming from.
  • They are open to changing their mind if presented with new information or a different perspective.
  • They are respectful of the other person's opinion, even if they disagree with it.
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Focusing on Commonalities

  • Successful people focus on the things that people have in common rather than their differences.
  • They understand that we are all human and have similar hopes, dreams, and fears.
  • They are able to connect with people from different backgrounds and cultures.
  • They are able to find common ground and build relationships based on shared values and interests.
  • They are able to work collaboratively with others towards a common goal.
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Learning from Opposing Sides

  • Successful people understand the importance of learning from opposing sides.
  • They are able to see the value in different perspectives and opinions.
  • They are able to learn from people who have different beliefs and values than their own.
  • They are able to challenge their own assumptions and biases.
  • They are able to grow and develop as individuals by exposing themselves to different ideas and ways of thinking.
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Embracing Paradoxes and Opposites

  • Successful people embrace paradoxes and opposites.
  • They understand that life is not black and white, but rather shades of gray.
  • They are comfortable with ambiguity and uncertainty.
  • They are able to hold two opposing ideas in their mind at the same time.
  • They are able to see the value in both sides of an argument.
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Having a Healthy Debate

  • Successful people engage in healthy debates.
  • They are willing to listen to the other side and understand their perspective.
  • They do their research and have the moral authority to debate a topic.
  • They are open to changing their mind if presented with new information.
  • They focus on the issues rather than attacking the person.
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Focusing on Commonalities

  • Successful people focus on the things that people have in common rather than their differences.
  • They understand that we are all human and have similar desires and needs.
  • They are able to connect with people from different backgrounds and cultures.
  • They are able to find common ground and work towards a common goal.
  • They are able to see the humanity in others and treat them with respect and empathy.
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Analyzing Situations from Different Perspectives

  • Successful people analyze situations from different perspectives.
  • They are able to see the bigger picture and understand the context of a situation.
  • They are able to look at things through different lenses and understand different viewpoints.
  • They are able to analyze their own situation and find ways to improve it.
  • They are able to learn from their mistakes and use them as opportunities for growth.
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Embracing Paradoxes and Opposites

  • Successful people embrace paradoxes and opposites.
  • They understand that life is not black and white, but rather a spectrum of shades of gray.
  • They are comfortable with ambiguity and uncertainty.
  • They are able to hold two opposing ideas in their mind at the same time and see the value in both.
  • They are able to see the bigger picture and understand that there are multiple perspectives to any situation.
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Having a Healthy Debate

  • Successful people engage in healthy debates.
  • They are not afraid to challenge ideas and beliefs, including their own.
  • They listen to others and are open to new ideas.
  • They are able to separate the person from the idea and do not take things personally.
  • They are able to articulate their own ideas clearly and persuasively.
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Focusing on Commonalities

  • Successful people focus on the things that people have in common rather than their differences.
  • They are able to connect with people from different backgrounds and cultures.
  • They are able to find common ground and build relationships based on shared values and interests.
  • They are able to see the humanity in others and treat everyone with respect and dignity.
  • They are able to collaborate effectively with others to achieve common goals.
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Having a High Pain Tolerance

  • Successful people have a high pain tolerance.
  • They are willing to put in the hard work and make sacrifices to achieve their goals.
  • They are able to push through discomfort and adversity.
  • They are able to delay gratification and focus on long-term goals.
  • They are able to learn from failure and use it as a stepping stone to success.
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Joining the Army for Mental Discipline

  • The army taught Patrick Bet David structure and system.
  • Every day was a routine, and he had to mentally and emotionally handle the torture.
  • The drill sergeants played games to test how tough he was.
  • Going through this kind of stuff helped him handle rejection and trash talk in the business world.
  • Joining the army was one of the best decisions he made in his life.
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Embracing Paradoxes and Opposites

  • Successful people embrace paradoxes and opposites.
  • They understand that life is not black and white.
  • They can hold two opposing ideas in their mind at the same time.
  • They can see the value in both sides of an argument.
  • They can find a way to make both sides work together.
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Having a Healthy Debate

  • Successful people have a healthy debate.
  • They are not afraid to challenge each other's ideas.
  • They listen to each other and try to understand each other's perspectives.
  • They are open to changing their minds if they are presented with a better argument.
  • They don't take things personally and can separate their emotions from the discussion.
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Focusing on Commonalities

  • Successful people focus on the things that people have in common rather than their differences.
  • They understand that we are all human and have similar needs and desires.
  • They can connect with people from different backgrounds and cultures.
  • They can find common ground and build relationships based on shared values.
  • They can see the bigger picture and work towards a common goal.
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Embracing Paradoxes and Opposites

  • Successful people embrace paradoxes and opposites.
  • They understand that life is not black and white, but rather a spectrum of shades of gray.
  • They are comfortable with ambiguity and uncertainty.
  • They are able to hold two opposing ideas in their mind at the same time and see the value in both.
  • They are able to see the bigger picture and understand that there are multiple perspectives to any situation.
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Having a Healthy Debate

  • Successful people engage in healthy debates.
  • They are not afraid to challenge ideas and beliefs, including their own.
  • They listen to others and are open to different viewpoints.
  • They are able to separate the person from the idea and do not take things personally.
  • They are able to articulate their own ideas clearly and persuasively.
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Focusing on Commonalities

  • Successful people focus on the things that people have in common rather than their differences.
  • They are able to connect with people from different backgrounds and cultures.
  • They are able to find common ground and build relationships based on shared values and interests.
  • They are able to see the humanity in others and treat everyone with respect and dignity.
  • They are able to bridge divides and bring people together.
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Embracing the Unknown

  • Successful people embrace the unknown.
  • They are not afraid to take risks and try new things.
  • They understand that failure is a necessary part of the learning process.
  • They are able to adapt to changing circumstances and pivot when necessary.
  • They are able to see opportunities where others see obstacles.
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Embracing Paradoxes and Opposites

  • Successful people embrace paradoxes and opposites.
  • They understand that life is not black and white, but rather shades of gray.
  • They are comfortable with ambiguity and uncertainty.
  • They are able to hold two opposing ideas in their mind at the same time.
  • They are able to see the bigger picture and understand that there are multiple perspectives.
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Having a Healthy Debate

  • Successful people engage in healthy debates.
  • They are not afraid to challenge ideas and beliefs.
  • They are open to feedback and criticism.
  • They are able to listen to others and consider different viewpoints.
  • They are able to communicate their own ideas effectively.
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