Jay & His Wife Radhi ON: The BIGGEST LIE About Love & 3 Things To Look For In A Partner

Last updated: Jun 1, 2023

The video is an interview with Jay Shetty and his wife Radhi discussing the biggest lie about love and three things to look for in a partner.

The video is an episode of the podcast "On Purpose with Jay Shetty" featuring Jay and his wife Radhi. They discuss the biggest lie about love and three things to look for in a partner. They also answer questions from Jay's team, including what they love most about each other and how their relationship has changed over time. The conversation takes place at a special location for the couple, the Grove Hotel, where they used to go for walks and spend time together when they first started dating.

  • Jay Shetty and his wife Radhi discuss love and relationships.
  • It took two years to book Radhi for the podcast.
  • Jay and Radhi answer questions from their team without prior knowledge of the questions.
  • Jay and Radhi give advice on what to look for in a partner.
  • Living with integrity and authenticity is important in relationships.
  • Discovering yourself and finding courage is important.
  • Relationships can be impacted by life changes.
  • Openness and connection are important in relationships.
  • Playing different roles in relationships is common.
  • Handling mood swings with support and understanding is important.

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Introduction

  • Jay Shetty and his wife Radhi discuss love and relationships.
  • They thank their listeners for making their podcast successful.
  • They introduce themselves and talk about their relationship.
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Booking Radhi for the Podcast

  • It took two years to book Radhi for the podcast.
  • They talk about how busy Radhi is.
  • They joke about creating a jingle for Radhi's book.
  • Radhi admits to not finishing Jay's book yet.
  • They talk about recording the podcast at a meaningful location.
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Answering Questions from the Team

  • Jay and Radhi answer questions from their team without prior knowledge of the questions.
  • They discuss what they love most about each other.
  • Radhi talks about Jay's consistency and integrity.
  • Jay talks about Radhi's ability to help him grow and heal.
  • They discuss how their love has evolved over time.
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Advice for Finding a Partner

  • Jay and Radhi give advice on what to look for in a partner.
  • They emphasize the importance of shared values and priorities.
  • They talk about the importance of communication and honesty.
  • They discuss the importance of growth and healing in a relationship.
  • They encourage listeners to focus on self-love and healing before seeking a partner.
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Living with Integrity and Authenticity

  • Living with integrity allows you to give yourself authentically.
  • Living in alignment allows people to feel your energy.
  • Being yourself around your partner is important.
  • Not feeling judged or pressured to perform is important.
  • Allowing others to be who they are is important.
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Discovering Yourself and Finding Courage

  • Discovering yourself and your values is important.
  • Finding courage to move to a new city or country is important.
  • Being positive and not gossiping or criticizing others is important.
  • Being on a journey to get to know yourself is important.
  • Being confident in who you are is important.
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Relationships Through Life Changes

  • Relationships can be impacted by moving countries, jobs, and homes.
  • Staying the same and keeping your head down can be helpful.
  • Being tolerant and not codependent is important.
  • Being happy in yourself and finding your own self is important.
  • Not making your partner feel guilty or bad for being away is important.
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Openness and Connection in Relationships

  • Openness and connection are important in relationships.
  • Not blaming or pointing fingers is important.
  • Not feeling like it's anyone's fault if life is harder or easier is important.
  • Constantly finding a way to connect with each other is important.
  • Having the courage to be open and honest is important.
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Consistency and Embracing Change

  • Consistency in a partner is important for feeling supported.
  • Change can be scary, but embracing it can lead to a sense of freedom.
  • Living day-to-day without expectations can be a better way of living.
  • Handling change well can be a valuable trait in a partner.
  • Dealing with change can help overcome fear of it.
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Relationship Roles

  • Playing different roles in relationships is common.
  • The book "Eight Rules of Love" includes a quiz to determine relationship roles.
  • Radhi feels like Jay is a parent when it comes to food and healthy eating.
  • Jay feels like Radhi is a parent/partner when guiding him through midlife crises.
  • Guidance is more effective than criticism or judgment in a partner.
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Handling Mood Swings

  • Radhi can be erratic and moody.
  • Jay handles Radhi's mood swings well.
  • Radhi can go from being excited to wanting to hide away in a forest.
  • Jay is supportive and understanding of Radhi's mood swings.
  • Radhi can be childlike in wanting attention and love.
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Conclusion

  • Consistency, handling change, and guidance are important traits in a partner.
  • Playing different roles in a relationship is common.
  • Handling mood swings with support and understanding is important.
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Being a Partner

  • Being a partner means supporting each other.
  • Jay's wife Radhi has been a great partner for his health.
  • Radhi encouraged Jay to exercise more and work out.
  • During the pandemic, they worked out together nearly every day.
  • Jay thinks that Radhi helped him figure out his own voice.
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Teaching People to Heal Themselves

  • Fixing someone can make them feel broken.
  • Loving someone means making them fall more in love with themselves.
  • Teaching people how to heal themselves and navigate life is more helpful than fixing them.
  • Helping someone through genuine care is better than helping them to feel valuable.
  • Helping others can be a way to avoid dealing with important things in one's own life.
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Dealing with Annoyance in a Partner

  • Jay's wife Radhi has never annoyed him.
  • There are things that irritate Radhi, but she doesn't remember them.
  • Forgetting the good stuff is a trade-off for having a terrible memory.
  • Feeling annoyed by a partner is normal, but it's not necessarily a deal breaker.
  • It's important to communicate with your partner about what annoys you and find ways to work through it.
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Three Things to Look for in a Partner

  • Shared values and beliefs.
  • Someone who challenges you to grow and become a better person.
  • Someone who supports you and is there for you through thick and thin.
  • It's important to have a partner who is not just a lover, but also a friend and a teammate.
  • Having a partner who is willing to communicate and work through problems is crucial for a healthy relationship.
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Communication and Sharing

  • Radhi can be defensive and have more of an ego about arguing, while Jay tries to resolve conflicts quickly.
  • Jay is thoughtful about his words and never says things he doesn't mean.
  • Radhi sometimes wants to argue and have a bit of a tiff, but Jay never says something mean to her.
  • Jay is private about certain things, but he shares to give lessons and experiences to people.
  • Jay shares about their ups and downs to show that there is no perfect partnership.
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Personal Differences

  • Jay is more outgoing and exudes energy around people, while Radhi had to learn to grow into sharing things with others.
  • Jay is very open, while Radhi is more private about their relationship.
  • Radhi appreciates Jay's intention behind sharing, and it doesn't upset her.
  • Jay shares about their relationship to show that there is no perfect partnership.
  • Radhi finds it suffocating when people think anything about perfection to do with her.
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Accepting Imperfections

  • Jay and Radhi both recognize that they are not perfect people.
  • Jay wrote his book for Radhi to read because he needs the advice in it too.
  • Radhi finds it difficult to handle when people think she is perfect.
  • Jay started talking about their ups and downs to show that there is no perfect partnership.
  • Jay and Radhi both appreciate each other's imperfections and accept them.
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Appreciation and Love

  • Jay and Radhi appreciate each other's differences and accept them.
  • Jay and Radhi both love each other and show it in different ways.
  • Jay and Radhi both recognize that love is not just a feeling, but also a choice and a commitment.
  • Jay and Radhi both believe that love is about accepting each other's imperfections and growing together.
  • Jay and Radhi both believe that love is about supporting each other and being there for each other.
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The Importance of Sharing Imperfections

  • Radhi cries with every emotion as a way of releasing things.
  • They share fights and challenges they have as a couple to avoid portraying a perfect image.
  • They want people to know that they are not perfect and are constantly growing and making mistakes.
  • People assume that their relationship is perfect because of Jay's book.
  • Radhi chooses what she shares because she wants to give off positive energy to people.
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Three Fight Styles in a Relationship

  • Jay and Radhi have different ways of processing arguments.
  • Jay vents while Radhi hides when they have a fight.
  • Exploding is when someone wants to let all their emotions out.
  • They take time out to digest the problem and come back to it later.
  • Sharing examples of their relationship helps people understand that they are on the same team.
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Perfection Pressure

  • Radhi is still working through the pressure of perfection.
  • It's difficult to communicate that she's not happy all the time or perfect.
  • She sometimes hides away from discussing certain things because it's too difficult.
  • Everyone in the world is looking for perfection.
  • Radhi wants people to know that it's okay to not be perfect.
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Looking for a Partner

  • Radhi believes that the biggest lie about love is that it's easy.
  • She thinks that love is a choice and requires effort.
  • Three things to look for in a partner are kindness, respect, and communication.
  • Radhi believes that communication is the most important thing in a relationship.
  • She thinks that it's important to have a partner who is willing to grow and change with you.
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The Biggest Lie About Love

  • Perfection equals happiness in people's minds.
  • People think that having a perfect life means being happy.
  • People's perception of perfection is different from what actually makes them happy.
  • Stripping back and focusing on what makes an individual happy is what perfection is.
  • For Radhi, her spiritual journey is what makes her happy and is her version of perfection.
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